UPSC Motivation & Frustration
UPSC Frustration Feeling frustrated during the UPSC journey is very common, and it’s something every serious aspirant goes through—whether in the first attempt or after failing multiple times. Let’s break this down and help you or your readers manage this mental battle:
What You Can Do When Frustrated
Table of Contents
The Reasons Behind UPSC Frustration
Massive Syllabus, Limited Time: Despite your best efforts, the syllabus seems to be never-ending and unfinished.
Absence of Outcomes (Prelims Rejections): After months of study, you fail to pass the preliminary exam. That is heartbreaking.
Peer pressure and expectations: family members asking inquiries, friends landing jobs—these things hurt more than failure.
Burnout and loneliness: Long study sessions, seclusion, and a lack of enjoyment cause mental exhaustion.
Repeated Failure: Anyone can feel lost if their name is not on the list, even after years of hard work.
- Recognize Your Emotions
Feeling depressed, crying, or having self-doubt is acceptable. Don’t repress it. You’re a human, and this test is challenging.
2. Have a Quick Rest
Taking two to three guilt-free days off can occasionally help you refocus. Meet a friend, go out, and watch a movie.
3. Think Before Acting
Jot down what isn’t functioning:
Do you have too many resources covered?
Do you neglect to revise?
Do you find yourself reading passively?
This self-evaluation provides insight.
✅ 4. Restrict Comparing
Nobody’s trip is the same as yours. Instagram won’t reveal that a topper’s success story took years to achieve.
✅ 5. Reestablish the “Why”
Why did you begin studying for the UPSC? For influence, service, or honor? You can reignite the fire by reading your “why” again.
️ UPSC Aspirants’ Mental Health Advice
Exercise and walks in the morning
Meditation helps to relax the brain. It takes 5 to 10 minutes a day.
Limit your use of social media, especially once the results are in.
Read inspirational biographies by people like Manoj Kumar, Ira Singhal, Roman Saini, and Neha Byadwal.
Speak with a friend, family member, mentor, or even a counselor.
✅ 4. Restrict Comparing
No two people’s journeys are alike. The fact that a topper’s success story took years to obtain is not disclosed by Instagram.
- Establish the “Why” again.
What motivated you to start preparing for the UPSC? For honor, service, or influence? Reading your “why” again will help you rekindle the passion.
Advice for UPSC Aspirants on Mental Health 🧘♀️
In the morning, take walks and exercise.
🧘 Meditation promotes brain relaxation. Every day, it takes five to ten minutes.
Use social media sparingly, especially once the results are in.
📖 Read motivational biographies of individuals such as Neha Byadwal, Roman Saini, Ira Singhal, and Manoj Kumar.
Consult a mentor, friend, relative, or even a counselor.
Strong Sayings for UPSC Anger
“It can sometimes take ten years to have that life-altering year.”
“Failure is a necessary component of success, not its antithesis.”
“Being constant is more important than being extreme.”
Actual UPSC Case Studies
Anudeep Durishetty (AIR 1): Had several failures before achieving success
Despite passing the exam, Ira Singhal encountered discrimination but managed to
Neha Byadwal: Passed the UPSC while working a regular job
They also wept and had self-doubt, but they persisted.
✨ Last Words
You’re not weak if you’re frustrated; rather, you’re developing.
If you can effectively manage this agony, it will eventually become your success narrative.
The Best Inspirational Films for UPSC Candidates
12th Fail (2023): ⭐ Strongly Suggested Based on: IPS Officer Manoj Kumar Sharma’s True Story
Why watch? depicts the hardships of a low-income student who, in spite of all challenges, passes the UPSC.
Lesson: Your life can be transformed by perseverance, grit, and never giving up.
Accessible via Disney+ Hotstar
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Potential Candidates (Web Series – 2021)
By: The Viral Fever (TVF)
Why watch? depiction of Rajinder Nagar, Delhi, UPSC student life in a realistic manner.
Themes: emotional fortitude, friendship, exam pressure, and self-doubt.
📺 Available on: YouTube (Free)
- Super 30 (2019)
Based on: Anand Kumar, who trained underprivileged kids for IIT-JEE.
Why watch? Though it’s about IIT, the struggle and motivation are universal.
Stars: Hrithik Roshan
- Swades (2004)
Why watch? Shows how one person can make a difference in society.
Inspiration: Sense of service, social responsibility—core of UPSC values.
- Manjhi – The Mountain Man (2015)
Why watch? A man breaks a mountain for 22 years with a hammer and chisel.
Lesson: Determination defeats all odds.
- Sardar Udham (2021)
Why watch? Patriotism and commitment to justice, ideal for Civil Services spirit.
Based on: Freedom fighter Sardar Udham Singh
- I Am Kalam (2011)
Why watch? Story of a poor boy inspired by APJ Abdul Kalam to pursue education. - Chak De! India (2007)
Genre: Sports Drama
Why Watch: Focus, teamwork, overcoming failure. Lessons perfect for personal growth and UPSC mindset.
Available on: Amazon Prime Video
- Taare Zameen Par (2007)
Genre: Drama
Why Watch: Teaches empathy, understanding different abilities, and the value of good mentorship.
Available on: Netflix
- Lakshya (2004)
Genre: War Drama
Why Watch: Journey of a directionless youth who finds purpose in life. Helps in self-realization.
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🎵 “Main Tike Rahunga – UPSC Anthem” 🎵
(Original motivational song lyrics in Hindi)
Verse 1:
Andhera chaaye, to roshni banunga,
Thak ke ruk jaun? Nahin, main to chalunga.
Har din hai nayi ladai, par hausla mere saath hai,
Sapna bada hai mera, aur yakeen bhi raaj hai.
Chorus:
🌟 Main tike rahunga, girke bhi uthunga,
Sapno ke liye, har mod pe ladunga.
Ye UPSC sirf ek exam nahin,
Mera junoon hai, meri pehchaan banegi yahin. 🌟
Verse 2:
Kitab ka har panna, kahani ban gaya,
12 ghante ki mehnat, ab zindagi ka rang ban gaya.
Jo log hans rahe the, kal woh salaam karenge,
Main jo kar raha hoon, woh kal misaal banenge.
Bridge:
Jab man ghabraaye, to khud se kehna,
“Main banaya gaya hoon kisi khaas karan se.”
Safar lamba hai, par manzil kareeb hai,
Har mushkil ke baad, nayi jeet naseeb hai.
(Repeat Chorus)
🌟 Main tike rahunga, girke bhi uthunga,
Sapno ke liye, har mod pe ladunga.
Ye UPSC sirf ek exam nahin,
Mera junoon hai, meri pehchaan banegi yahin. 🌟
🎧 Optional Background Music Suggestions:
- Instrumental Beats: Tabla + Violin + Synth Pads
- Mood: Uplifting, cinematic, determined
- Tempo: Medium (85–100 BPM)
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